Contrary to Brianna Parkins’s claim that marriage is merely a fanciful notion glorified by the affluent (“Fairy tales about marriage, an indulgence of the well-to-do”, People, March 2nd), there is substantial evidence to suggest otherwise. As a Research Director at Marriage Foundation UK, I have extensively studied this subject matter, particularly in the United Kingdom.
Indeed, wealthier individuals are more likely to marry in many western countries. However, three notable international studies in recent years, along with my Doctoral investigation, support the view that the probability of married parents maintaining their relationship is higher across various income brackets and other demographic groups. The stability that ensues from marriage helps safeguard familial assets and also serves as a buffer against the threat of indigence.
Marriage in and of itself fosters this stability due to the inherent psychology of commitment that it involves. To ensure persistence in any endeavour, a conscientious pledge is necessary, complemented by a well-structured plan that discards any doubts, and an announcement of the commitment adds assurance. These elements are integral to marriage.
Certainly, marriage does not promise an infallible path to success. However, across generations, various cultures have established forms of marriage, fully understanding that the psychological aspects of this institution tilt the odds towards its success, for the welfare of the partners and their children. This fact holds true today.
In an unrelated notice, Karen Koster and John McGuire’s dwelling, boasting panoramic views from Aviva to Herbert Park, is up for grabs for €1.95m.
HARRY BENSON,
Research Director,
Marriage Foundation UK,
London.