At Dublin’s esteemed Mansion House on a Thursday, a continuous line of individuals poured in to pen their condolences for the recently departed Nell McCafferty. The relentless flow consisted mainly of females in their later years.
The activist, who was not only known for her prominence in journalism but also civil rights and feminism, was hailed as a trailblazer, a woman of stupendous strength and an impassioned, unshakeable voice. Many who expressed their sentiments brought up how McCafferty, who passed away on Wednesday at the age of 80, had personally influenced their lives. Some were visibly affected whilst describing their reasons.
Mary Kennedy, 70, a resident of Dublin 8, had decided to spend a day away from babysitting her grandson in order to visit the Mansion House. She had encountered McCafferty several years ago and felt an instant connection. Describing McCafferty as a strong-willed woman who didn’t tolerate nonsense from anyone, Kennedy was noticeably moved when commenting on why this was significant to her at the time. She discussed how McCafferty’s support boosted her morale during difficult times.
Pauline O’Donnell, 69, claimed: “McCafferty hold a great significance to many, including myself. Being a homosexual, I admired her as she was an influential figure for us despite not being very outspoken about her own sexual orientation. Despite knowing that honesty can often backlash, she never let that hold her back. Her fearless personality is something that is worth appreciating. Throughout the years, she’s been there for all of us women who were possibly going through hard times.”
Hazel Dunphy, 60, recalled McCafferty as an exceptional woman. Growing up in Waterford during the 80s and watching The Late Late show left a deep impression on her. Later, being part of a women’s group in Trinity McCafferty’s influence made a huge impact. Dunphy echoed the sentiment that McCafferty played an indispensable role in their lives.
Numerous women expressed surprise that younger generations were unfamiliar with the late McCafferty. Both Aileen Bennett and Carol McGinn, both aged 70, spoke fondly of McCafferty’s influence in their lives, stating that she has “always been present”. They appreciated that she shared their experiences in the same Ireland.
Ms Bennett praised McCafferty for being an empowering voice they desired. Ms McGinn remembered her for bringing laughter to women’s lives in tough times through her candid and straightforward comments.
Reminiscing the days when they wed in the 80s, they remembered how they were forbidden to use contraception for family planning, get a divorce, or even take a loan without the husband’s consent. They credited McCafferty’s advocacy work and the European Union membership of Ireland as the significant catalysts for improving Irish women’s conditions. Ms McGinn emphasized the importance for the younger generation to be aware of their history and acknowledge what they owe to her.
The condolence book placed in the reception hall was predominantly signed by women. Numerous messages included sentiments such as: “Rest in Power, Nell” and “Thank you for all you did for women”. Extensive, personal encomiums highlighted the impact of McCafferty’s activism on individual lives.
The condolence book at the Mansion House ceased its operation at 5pm on Thursday. A digital tribute is accessible on the Dublin City Council website until September 1st, allowing more people to express their sympathies.
All expressed condolences will be gathered, printed, and sent in a collective condolence book to McCafferty’s kin.